I’d try to advise my friends against dating, but they’d do it anyway, and I’d have to drive them home when they got super drunk because she demands everything, gives nothing of use, and is never in the wrong, -EVER-. For every “point” Holly makes, I could write a 2 page paper on why that’s usually not the case, but that would be rude since this is your site, not mine.

I just wanted to comment on the fact that the reasons listed are just “Man’s fault. Man’s fault. Man’s fault”, and not a single one of them is “She might just be a living, breathing, fanny”. I hope this doesn’t imply that you never think that it’s the woman’s fault, or generally lean towards it being the man’s fault 90% of the time, because -THAT- is what actually causes wives/girlfriends to be mean to you. The notion that “He isn’t giving me this! He’s the worst person in the world!” rather than “He has things he needs to do, and maybe I’m asking for too much, or asking for it at the wrong times”.

We have to consider that in some relationships, only the man is working. In others, both members work, but the male has more of a physically demanding job. The female is allegedly supposed to mean the world to you, but I often observe that they don’t return the favor.

All in all, we need to open our minds, and stop this one-sided foolishness. I can tell when something is my fault, and I’ll apologize for it if it is. I’m just very disappointed that a majority of the females I’ve talked to can’t do the same.

I literally spoiled this girl to death and all i ever got was emotional abuse. Nothing was ever good enough. I always felt like it was my fault and whenever I brought up how I felt, she would disregard it.

Seriously, these girls all have NPD. Read up on it and i guarantee she will have all the symptoms! Stay away from these girls. They are a ‘black hole’ of emotional needs. Nothing will ever be good enough for them.