Sexy Boss Update
It seems like a good time for a Sexy Boss update. But first, quick recap: I got a new job, and my boss is hot. Also, I’m happily married, so during those rare instances (extremely, extremely rare) when I think a man is hot, I stay far away from him. For this reason, I’m VERY happy I don’t have to work in the office with my boss. (My job is home-based.) SO, here are updates:
- At first, I thought Sexy Boss was sort of dumb, though good at managing people. So, he was handsome–but not intriguing…But as it turns out, he’s super intelligent. Thank heaven for the other details that dull those qualities…more below.
- Sexy Boss has a girlfriend. She’s foreign. I love foreigners. That kind of made me like Sexy Boss for his perspective, as well as his handsomeness and intelligence. I was beginning not to like all the things I liked about Sexy Boss.
- Sexy Boss could have a little alcohol dependency thing going on. Talks about alcohol a lot and also seems to drink quite frequently. We love Sexy Boss, but terribly glad we aren’t married to him.
- Some people in our company use Twitter. Saw a post on there by Sexy Boss about this book he’s reading on why men can’t be monogamous…And his post said something to the effect of how nice that this book was helping him understand himself.
That was so nice to read. Not because I want Sexy Boss to be the cheating type–but because I am so happy to be married to a man who doesn’t need a book to learn how to be monogamous. He just IS monogamous. And he doesn’t need a book to understand himself. He understands what he wants and what he needs and the difference between those concepts.
So, did I stop working REALLY hard so Sexy Boss will think I’m smart? God no! I really want him to think I’m smart. Does that mean I will not spend a very long time making sure my eyeliner looks perfect and my hair looks freshly styled before the next office meeting? Mmmm no. I guess I want Sexy Boss to think I’m smart and pretty even though he is a cheating alcoholic immature motorcycle “non-establishment” type, and even though I’m super happy with my husband.
This makes no sense. I can’t really explain it. Crushes are kind of fun. As long as you’re like me and really good at avoiding the object of your crush like the plague.
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LOL, Holly…working gal crush? At least you’re having fun at work!
Hi Noemi!!!
How are you?
Yeah, working girl crush. Thanks for stopping by!
I wish any of my former bosses were sexy. I was usually stuck with the bottom of the barrel of humanity.
Just ran across your blog. The empty container post in particular made me literally laugh out loud… only because I can totally relate.
I was laid off in June and started blogging about my unemployment .. one of my entries was about “little presents” my hubby leaves for me on the counter (they don’t even make it to the fridge!). Here’s that post about my lovely hubby.
http://activeleisure.wordpress.com/2009/08/20/men-vs-women/
The more I blogged each day, the more I had to keep stopping myself from constantly writing little anecdotes about life with hubby since these would have been completely off the topic of my blog. I could have easily let these posts take over. So, I just (literally today) started a new blog dedicated to those “subtle” differences between men & women. I’m literally at the very beginning stages but so many of my stories are similar to yours that I just had to drop you a note.
I’ve worked with a couple of hot bosses before, one thing they have in common? they definitely do not know the meaning of monogamy.
I wish any of my former bosses were sexy…